Meeting new women

Being prepared for the meeting is much better than being caught at a weak moment. Make a plan and analyze what works and what goes wrong, where you are successful and what still courses confusion.

Find the right surrounding
You have very few chances of meeting the right woman in a pub or at the machinery plant. Of course much depends on the kind of woman you look for. But you are much more likely to find a suitable partner in a coffee house, somewhere in the gym, yoga class, language courses. Take up any activity that is considered to be feminine: dancing, cooking, design or anything like that. You will be surrounded by plenty of women and can choose the one you need.

Pickup lines
Think up some cool words you can tell her. She must be encouraged to continue the conversation. Something original works but cheesiness will spoil everything.

Conversation
If you have guessed the topic she is interested in the conversation will flow without any additional efforts. If you are not sure about what she likes to discuss ask for her opinion. Women like it when their opinion is taken into consideration. She will also be pleased that you find her thoughts and opinion so important as to consult her.

Perfection comes with time
First steps are the most difficult. To ensure yourself that you won’t stumble at every word and that in the most important moment you won’t get dumb rehearse the words you want to strike her with.

Gain confidence
Calm down. Be confident. Everything is OK if you manage your nerves. After the conversation you need to find out how you can contact her. Asking for the phone number? Sometimes women’s shyness prevents them from leaving the phone number to men. A safer way is to ask her to right down her e-mail. And then a phone number in case something goes wrong with electronic mailing system.

Perfect flirting
The presence of a flirting gene in a human body is not proven by scientists yet. But some people seem to flirt since childhood without any efforts. Others often get confused and embarrassed when it comes to attracting attention of the opposite sex. To overcome any difficulties it is useful to know some rules that can help you to perform ideal flirting or at least not to get confused. One of the most difficult things is to identify that the woman is flirting.

The signs that certify woman’ flirting are:

- She is copying your movements and your posture
- She is watching you all the time, tries to establish an eye-contact and to maintain this contact.
- Her eyebrows are elaborately curved
- She is blinking all the time
- She is eradiating open mouthed smiles
- She licks her lips often
- She faces you and crosses her legs
- You can see the flesh of her arms and thighs
- She laughs a lot, cheerfully and often without any reason
- She addresses you in the conversation oftener than other people.
- She tends to touch you under some strange excuse (to take a speck of dust off your clothes even when your jacket is perfectly clean).

Successful flirting must find a respond. The goal of any flirting is to attract attention of another person. So take your chance and flirt in return. One more reason to perform flirting in return is that the woman can find you either unwilling to maintain contact with her or too hard-boiled to waste her efforts on.

Undertake some important measure to win the woman:
Be yourself. If you act naturally you don’t have to pretend all the time. Moreover you will always look natural
Gain confidence. Don’t be afraid of her. She is not a monster
As soon as you feel free everything will go smoothly.
Start or maintain the conversation
Treat the present situation and do not be under the influence of your past misfortunes
Always tell the truth. Flattery is not a lie; it’s emphasizing one’s best point. And every woman has something to be complimented on.
Smile. Your smile is a sign that your heart is open for the contact and that you are ready to respond to her feelings
Maintain eye contact
Listen to her attentively. At present she is the only woman in the world you pay attention to
Discuss common interests
Try to learn more about her. Each person likes talking about oneself.

Be careful and try to avoid any of the following:
Don’t cling to her, she may easily get bored with you if you are too obtrusive
Don’t touch certain places! You can easily guess what you can touch on the first meeting (her hand, her waist when you are dancing). But touching some other parts can be treated as groping
Don’t be nervous and you won’t be clumsy
Don’t rush and fussy
Don’t shock her with an endless flow of information that she can’t neither digest nor stop
Don’t boast and don’t pretend to be the best, the most reach and most gorgeous man in the world. Even if you actually are.
Don’t confuse her and do not create uncomfortable situations

Date Ideas
Yes, she agreed. You are having a dater with her. But the thing is only half-done. Now you should make her interested in you.

Where to go? There are universal places that you can visit. It would be great if you have at least a slightest idea what she likes.
Cinema, theatre, museum, exhibition
Music concerts (different kinds of music are available: classic, jazz, rock, metal – but make sure she will appreciate your invitation)
Restaurant, cafe, coffee\tea house
Dancing party
Sporting activity (if you are not sure whether she enjoys doing or even watching sports (playing football, watching a hockey match) choose something easier – rolling skating, ice skating, skiing. If you want something more original – go paragliding, snowboarding or surfing)
Picnic, barbeque – you can join your friends or family or have a picnic or dinner together
Bowling, snooker
Amusement park, game room
Simple walking can sometimes bring even more pleasure than visiting some places.
Women especially love scenic places, walking along the lake\river\sea, sunsets – all these things create a romantic atmosphere that is so highly ranked by women.

Dating itself
Take the following tips into consideration. They will help you not to fail your date:
Be yourself. Natural behavior is the best one.

Don’t shock her on the first date. Since you are not sure about what she likes do not choose “strange” untraditional movies or meals. Be flexible to change you plans if she has a better suggestion

You will have to maintain the conversation. What to speak about? Read the latest news, investigate what is new in the world of arts, music, cinema. These universal ideas will give your plenty of topics for a conversation.

Present your best! Appearance is important. Don’t let dirty teeth, nails and hair spoil the impression she creates on you.

Remove bad odor with the help of deodorants or she will assume that it’s your normal condition.

Gifts are a traditional thing but you can always impress and please her with a gift especially with an original one. But to be safe you can always bring flowers.

Punctuality is necessary. Better come a few minute earlier.

With the help of a good sense of humor you can attract the majority of woman. But be careful about you jokes. Awkward words may offend her. Beside some topics are not laughed at.

If your opinions on some point differ do not argue. If you can’t come to an agreement leave the topic.

Be interested in what she is saying to you. Listen to her and remember her words. Ask question to show your interest but do not interrupt. Be sure you do not ask about the things she has just told you about.

Dancing create a gorgeous impression. If you have two left feet learn at least several basic steps. No matter how good you are at dancing she will appreciate if you ask her for a dance. If the situation is suitable she may learn you how to dance. But show that you really want to do it and make a lot of efforts to follow her advice.

The constant flow of the compliments is essential but do not go too far. And remember you tell only the truth! Make an emphasis on her best points.

Be polite. A real gentleman will always open the door for the lady and pull out the chair for.

Phone conversation are possible only in extreme situations on condition you explain it to the woman.

Romance the woman. Sunsets, candles, dining out, walking under the stars will make her feel special.

Do not hurry her up. If you want to have sex with her make sure that’s not the only thing you need to get from her. Women do not like to be loved only for one evening. If she is attracted to you everything will happen in a natural way.

She will be pleased to hear that you are enjoying the evening with her. But do not lie.

Don’t let the trifles spoil the date. Do not pay attention if something confusing has happened.

When the date is over you need to decide how you will leave. If you have become disappointed with her and doubt whether you can go out together say “Good night”, “It was nice to meet you” and other pleasant things and leave. Do not promise anything. But if you feel attracted say you will call her. Kisses are a controversial thing to do at the end of the first date. Some women are very touchy and prefer to leave without any kisses. Others will be surprised if you leave without kissing them. To identify what she wants observe her movements. She will make a first move in case she is waiting for a kiss.

Don’t lie about the date to anybody. Each untruthful word will reach her ears somehow and you will spend a lot of time to regain your reputation.

Impress Her
You can hardly expect that she will say you that you impressed her. But don’t think that she won’t notice how you look and how you behave. What can you do to make her appreciate you? Again, confidence! Independence, self-esteem, reliability can smite any woman.
Do not ask for protection! Do not whine and complain. Or all your independence and self-esteem will vanish.
Maintain a conversation. Let her talk about the things she likes.
Try to use all you wit and humor. Women do not excuse dumbness.
Be a gentleman. Try to be close to her, to hold her hand when you manner let you do it. But remember about tact.

What does the woman want?
Generally the majority of women look for a typical set of basic qualities in men. When you know which qualities she is looking for you can find and boost them in you. So, the most demanded men those who:
Do not lack confidence
Attractive and well-groomed
Have an attractive smile
Have a great sense of humor and know how to use their wit
Romantic
Can establish emotional contact

If you manage to impress the woman she will definitely let you know. But the way she prefers to communicate through differs from the means of communication ordinary people use:
She leans forward during the conversation
She touches her face
She winds her hair with her finger
She speaks in a mild voice
She crosses and uncrosses her legs
She tries to touch you and invent some excuses
She smiles often
She lives her lips
She snaps eyes at you
She tries to emphasis her best qualities to keep her best in front of you. Do the same! Be your best and don’t let her go away.